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Arrangements
are as follows: Visitation Friday, December 1 6-9 PM Cove Road, Pennsauken
Saturday, December 2 9-10:30 AM Route 130 & Andover Road Cinnaminson Services Saturday, December 2 10:30 AM Route 130 & Andover Road Cinnaminson
Interment Saturday, December 2 Following Service Cinnaminson |
Pennsauken High School Marching Band Attention all band members - past & present. We will meet at 7:30 PM at the Ingelsby Funeral Home so that we can walk through and present flowers as a group. If you are a past band member and wish to participate, send me an e-mail. |
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VICTORIA LEE HICKMAN Suddenly
on Victoria
was a student at York College of Penna., graduate of Relatives
and friends of the family are kindly invited to attend her visitation Friday |
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SPECIAL THANKS FROM THE HICKMAN FAMILY - View Here |
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Vicki
was a beautiful young woman who had lots of respect of people. If there was
ever a time when i was upset about something Vicki would make me laugh until
i cried. She would always sit on my lap or tickle me. She was so smart and
had alot going for herself. Im going to miss her so much. I will never forget
the time when i was crying about something at guard and she was there
comforting me. If i had one more chance to talk to her i would tell her
that i love her and that our friendship was very special. ~ Malika Butler |
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As freshman parents during the 2005-2006 band season, we
didn’t get to know Vicky very well. What we do remember about her was
her spirit, her love of life. Vicky always had a smile on her face and
was always surrounded by friends. We did get to know her parents, Bill
& Kristi. They loved their daughter so much and were so proud of
her. I remember comforting Kristi during last spring trip when she
missed Vicky’s concert band performance because she was outside tending to
another student who wasn’t feeling well. She got inside the school but
was closed out of the performance because it had already started.
Kristi was hysterical crying that she wouldn’t get to see Vicky perform with
the band anymore. At a barbeque they had for the Band Boosters over the
summer, they proudly played a video tape of Vicky skydiving. They
played it over and over again, watching with such joy & pride. Although Vicki is no longer with us, she will always live in
the hearts of the people she touched. We will miss you. ~ Wendy &
Lou Mottershead |
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Hope this is OK, I felt compelled to share my feelings about the outpouring of love and support for us…
All the things I remember about Victoria will take a hundred lifetimes to fade away.
Mrs. H & I have been very blessed to have a daughter like Victoria and I hope we told her that enough. She was our stars and the moon… a little spoiled but hey what are parents for! We have been even more blessed in that both her brother Bill and Vicki shared many of their friendships with us.. those friendships are with many of you that are visiting this page right now. We thank you for the visits, the support and just knowing that you all care so deeply… you are all very special to us.. she will live on for us through these relationships..
Like yourselves we will grieve the lose of Victoria every day and the loss of what might have come of a full lifetime with her but we will celebrate 18 wonderful years, 18 years that some may never have the opportunity to experience in their lifetime! I keep thinking if she had this much of an impact with 18 years on earth, how much more will she be able to accomplish with an eternity in heaven.
Well I’m sure she will be throwing a Christmas in July party in God’s backyard, ‘tagging’ some ones heavenly windshields, skydiving through the clouds (with wings this time) and who knows maybe she even has the rifle tosses down now!!!
We love you all.. Thank You.. Mr. H. |
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We first
met Vicki when she was in 6th grade. Jaimie spotted her at a People to
People meeting and told us there was a girl from her class there.
Jaimie and Vicki took a trip to We have many fond memories of Vicki and she will be greatly
missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family. We miss
you. ~ XO The Himes Family |
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I am so blessed
to have known Mrs. Luongo, I am presenting you this reward because you are nice and you
are cool. You do everything a student could ask for. You do so
many things that you don't even have to do. Thank you for everything. Given by Victoria Hickman Date So yesterday when I received the devastating news, I ran up to
my classroom, grabbed my much treasured framed certificate, and cried
for the little strawberry-blond girl with the impish smile that I
affectionately called "Peanut." Victoria, you always made me
proud to be your teacher, and I am proud to have been your friend
too! Thank you for everything! Love always, Mrs. Luongo |
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I
worked with Vicki at the Disney Store. She was a wonderful person to
work with. Everyone there loved her. She definitely had that
Disney attitude. Always happy, very outgoing. She loved
life. Vicki and Christine would drive us crazy
with those little spit bubbles and she knew it. But it is one of
those things that I will miss. And her flip flops in the dead of
winter. I always thought she was nuts. She was a great person and
will be missed deeply. Jen Raube |
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My name
is Gail Garrett. I reside on the same block as the Hickmans. My
daughter Gloria Williams was a friend of |
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Sorrowfully, I did not know Victoria. However, I am a mother and I sympathize with the trauma that has occurred in their family. My most sincere condolences to the Hickman family. Please ask them to remember the wonderful times that were spent with Victoria, and count the blessings of all they have shared. God Bless. Sincerely, Sharon McGee Cherry Hill, NJ Cramer Elementary School |
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A FINAL AIRGRAM FOR |
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Although Vicki was a huge part of the band, I will always
remember her for her success in field hockey. I remember the first game Vicki
played Varsity and how we all talked about how she should've been starting
Varsity much, much sooner. I felt very proud of Vicki, because she had the
heart and stickwork of a Varsity starter. Ironically enough, she became one
of the leading scorers on the Varsity team, despite her lack of experience.
Although she wasn't labeled as a captain, she held her own with the rest of
the captains her senior year--motivating the team, helping girls with their
stickwork, etc. Vicki was an inspiration on the field--she never, EVER gave
up (even if we played a team we knew we would lose to), always cheered, and
always gave her all. As the loudmouth on the team, I felt so much comfort and
pride knowing that Vicki cheered on the forward line, whether or not I could
be heard. She was so funny and so much fun to be around. When we would play
five-on-the-die, she would aggressively mark me, despite her size and the
equipment I was wearing, always telling me that she would score. However, the
most remarkable thing about Vicki was that even after field hockey season,
she still would say hi or have small chats with me in the hallway. She was
not obligated to, but she did anyway. And I am so happy to have known her. My
family wishes to extend their prayers and greatest sympathies to the
Hickmans. Vicki was a remarkable person that no one could possibly forget.
--Amanda Schott
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Vicky was a very kind hearted young lady. She would bring the fun
to color guard. She was so funny... And i do miss her. She had a lot going
for her as well as her parents. I knew Vicky by joining the band as a guard
member. Vicky will never be forgotten, and she will always live in our
memories. I do wish it was last words i could tell her. Yet as she was here i
appreciated and enjoyed her loving, cute face. She will be missed... Jazmynne Pratt P.s. I send my best wishes and sorries for her family and
friends... You raised a wonderful girl |
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I became
very close with Vicki in 6th grade. Vicki, Christine Rosen and I would hang
out often. We were both a member of the Red Devils soccer team for years. I
still cannot get over this. We had some good times together. I
remembered when she got baptized in her pool. It all seems like
yesterday. As we got older, we started to grow apart. Our friendship became
more distant, but we always said hi as we saw each other. She was a
great girl. She could make a room light up, and bring anyways mood up. Mr.
and Mrs. Hickman-I am so sorry for your loss. I know how proud you were of
your daughter. May she rest in peace, and light everyone's face up in heaven
now. You will be greatly missed. Melissa Paolini |
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P-Nut You where the crazy girl who never did anything bad to anyone. Everything you did was fun. From all the times we had in band when you carried my drum and me and James would push you back and forth with are drums. To all the band trips we would sing songs and To all the spring trips you wouldn't let me, rusty or Jaimie go to sleep on the bus going to Hershey. We would go up to random people in the park and just say Whoa!!! to. So many memories. This doesn't seem true. It doesn't seem real. You where one of the funniest people i knew. From walking around Delair in July singing Christmas carols to tagging people cars. You'll always be Miss and be in my heart. i will always love you.. I have so many pictures but i still feel your going to wake up and he like "HEY!!!!". It just doesn't seem rite. it doesn't feel real. You where so much fun. all the locker fights. There so much more but more I talk it makes me cry. ~ Justin Whiteman |
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I first met Vicki in 5th grade on a softball team and when she joined the Red Devils soccer team we quickly became best friends. We would hang out almost after every game and I always had so much fun. Needless to say, there was never a dull moment when Victoria was involved. I will miss her friendly personality as well as her sense of humor. I hope that we can all take a part of her free spirit and use it in our own lives. I am so sorry for your loss, Mr. and Mrs. Hickman and Bill. She was truly one in a million. May Angels Lead You In Peanut. Love, Christine Rosen |
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I first really met Vicki my freshman year during the our
indoor practices. I was just a freshman stickin with the people I knew
and was very shy. I remember Vicki, Jaimie, Malika, and Alyssia
laughing and joking around. Next thing I knew we were all friends and i was
laughing and joking with them. They made indoor practice so much fun.
Our over night trips were even better. From singing on the bus to having
birthday parties, practicing on the beach and riding on the tram car saying
hi to random people. She made me laugh and smile when I didn't think
possible. She was such a happy person all the time. Vicki was an amazing
friend and I hope that she knows how many people love and miss her. I know I
will. ~ Jaclyn Hohwald |
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Hey
babe the last time i saw you was the end of summer and i just want ya to know
that it was an awsome time everytime we hungout. WE will all miss you soo
much we love you more then anything im goin to go sky diving cause you said
how awsome it is ill be alittle closer to you babe i know ur lookin down on
all of us. and spreading you love to us all we will all miss you my love goes
out to u nick ~ love Bruce Santino |
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I first met Vicki my senior year at band camp. I
remember being introduced, and instantly saying wow I know we're gonna be
friends. And I was right. We had some interesting moments during
band. That led, to crazy car rides involving large pixie sticks and
bags of candy for sleepovers. I will always think of Vicki banging the
pixie sticks on the back of my seat in the car, while we were all rocking out
to Sugarcult, Bouncing off the Walls Again. I will forever remember her
for that song. Not sure y we were always eating candy or pixie sticks
when none of us needed the sugar, we were already bouncing off the walls
without it. We had some great times, and I'm sure everyone did with
her. Just the other day I was looking at old pictures and found the
ones from Halloween. We all decided to dress like thugs, which we
thought was great. Went trick or treating, and even took a
picture with Sponge Bob. They were just great times, and they are
missed. It didn't matter what kind of mood I was in. Whenever I
walked into the room and she was there, she always had a big smile on her
face, and always made me laugh. To just hanging out in the band room,
or being goofy in the car. I will never forget her, and she will always
hold a very special place in my heart. I don't think she realized how
many people she truly touched, but I'm sure she knows now. Taken from
us too soon, but she left footprints in all of our hearts for an eternity.
I can't believe she is gone. My deepest thoughts and prayers go out to
Mr. and Mrs. Hickman and Bill. I'm truly sorry for your
loss. I love you Vicki! Keep an eye on us down here! We
love & miss you so much! Xoxo Love, Krystal
Marion
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I
remember all your awesome parties you had at your house in your disco
lit basement where we would take silly pictures and stuff our faces with cake
until we couldn't breath. We also use to walk to the park in our pj's late at
night...I remember the time when I went in a moo-moo, toe sucks and a
wave cap...and you guys always brought that up and we would always laugh
so hard. Those were some good times...I also remember the time when you
dressed up as a gorilla and we made our own video while singing " I like
big butts and I cannot lie!" at the top of our lungs. I will never
forget your sense of humor and the smile you had that could light up the
room in a matter of seconds. U were and always be a truly amazing person in
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I've
been hesitant on posting my thoughts, only because I had no idea on where to
begin. Vicki was a ball of energy and happiness.
She has definitely played a big role
in my guard years...especially our Senior year. Senior
year was great....it was me, Malika, Jaimie, and Vicki that were pretty much
inseparable. Since being with each other so much from guard Vicki and I
became close and I thank God I got that chance. Just from guard there are many, many unforgettable memories I have
now to cherish, as well as the other guard members: Our birthday party in the
hotel room (when the decorations got sucked into the heating vent), Our
sleepover at the Hickmans (when we lefted Malika there while we went to Penn
Queen), her "herman the worm" song, her blowing of those nasty spit
bubbles, her finger dancing.....i can go on forever. Now I can think back and even cherish the
small things...seeing her in homeroom, loading and unloading the equipment
bus, starting practice when me and Malika were late, showing up at practice
and parking our red cars next to eachother, rooming together for every trip
and food shopping, helping me sneak out of school after 7th period....
Vicki
was an overall FUN and AMAZING FRIEND. Im going to
miss her goofiness and that smile that I totally adored. I had just seen her before the break was
over at the mall when she was working....we greeted each other with such a
big exciting and happy hug...If I would have known that was going to be my
last hug...I would have held on longer and told her I loved her...
I know for sure now that the Lord
has her under his wing. She
is in a wonderful place where in fact only wonderful people, like her belong.
It is true that even though she has
lived for 18 years, MANY have been touched by her beauty. My deepest thoughts and prayers go out to
Papa Smurf (Mr. Hickman), Mrs. Hickman, and her entire family and friends. Vicki you are truly an angel and a sweetheart. May God rest your precious soul. You are extremely loved and will be deeply missed! Watch over us Babe! ~Alyssia Ortiz |
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I was
never one for crying or pretty much showing any emotions because i guess i
was afraid of what people would think. Thats one thing that vic brought out
in me, she showed me how to live life and to do what i wanted to do. Its
because of her i met Ky and its because of her that i found myself. She was
always down to do somthing fun with no drama and i personally nevr knew a girl
like that. She was also the first girl i met that liked going wheeling with
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To Heavens newest Angel, Mr. DiVito and I want to thank you
for teaching us to "just chill". At the times when
chaperoning or during band camp when we'd want to scold you and your friends
for sillyness, you'd give us that sweet smile and we'd have to turn away so
you couldn't see us laugh, you knew you had us then. Thank you for your
friendship with Bobby. He's been talking about all the great gatherings
at your house, the dance you two went to, and your crazy antics in
band. Thank you for listening to Jackie when she asked tiny you to
befriend her "little brother" and introduce him around the
band. She, like you, is a bubbly ray of sunshine and when the two of
you got together, well lets just say our apologies go to Miss Murray, Dr. Webster
and Mr. Finnegan! We send a thank you to your brother Billy too.
Tommy's been talking about all the crazy antics that Billy pulled in
band. He said he'd laugh till he couldn't breath.&n bsp; W e thank
God for the Hickman kids that can definitely bring out the laughter in a
quiet room. Last but certainly not least, we thank you and Billy
for joining the band which brought your parents along. We have become
not only band parents but friends. We feel their pain and loss right
now but we promise you we will be their shoulders to cry on and lean
on. By the grace of God, they will laugh and smile again. For
now, we all just miss you so much but we trust that God brought you home
because he must have really needed you. And we know we will all see you
again. Do me a favor little angel, when its my turn to come home, will
you ring the cow bells extra loud so I can find you. All our love and prayers are with you Victoria and surrounding
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Vicki
and I met in the 6th grade. I spotted her at a People to People
meeting and decided to approach her in class. After I saw her at the meeting I realized
she was in almost all of my classes, and since usually on the first days you
are in alphabetical order, we were always next to each other. We remained next to each other for the
next 7 years of school. Since
day one we declared our selves best friends. We were pretty much inseparable, as most
people know. I could go
on forever with different memories her and I have with one another.
From our trip to People to People to
the Wednesday before Thanksgiving when I saw her last and everything in
between. She was my
best friend, the one I could always turn to. And as everyone has said before, always
wearing that unforgettable smile. I remember telling her in the 8th grade I wanted her to win best
smile because I knew she had it. She was always the happy one. I knew if I was having a bad day all I needed was a few minutes with
her and I would have a smile on my face. As her best friend, I also saw her at her worst times. The endless times she was grounded or in
trouble for grades, I always did my best to make it better. And to always get those better grades so
she wasn't grounded. As
we got into our later years of high school Vicki became my voice of taking
risks and having fun. That's
why I jumped out of a plane twice with her and went rock climbing.
I was her voice of reasoning, which
she sometimes listened to. We had a lot of plans for our future and it saddens me she will not
be there to complete them with me. But even though I cannot see her I know she will still be by my side
the entire way. I miss
her more with every passing moment and love her just the same. I was blessed enough to spend almost 8
wonderful years with her that I will cherish forever. She will always be my bestest friend, my
BFBDNST (sorry, our little secret code). I remember being upset I didn't get to see her over the weekend when
she was home before she went back to school. I just wish as we stood in the rain on
Wednesday night saying good bye I had hugged her a little tighter and told
her I loved her. I know
she knows I do. It is
going to really tough without her here but I know she'll make sure I get
through it. To the Hickman
family - I love you all very much. You know I am
only a phone call away. I
am sorry for your loss. Vicki,
save me a spot up there. Shot gun, no blitz next to you!
We're going to have a lot of
catching up to do. I
love you. I miss you. "God
broke our hearts to prove to us He only takes the best..." Love
always, Jaimie
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I am not sure how to begin. Vicki was
a amazing person to say the least. She was a friend and a fellow
athlete, and I can honestly say that if it wasn't for her, I would not be the
same person I am today. Her influence on my life and I am sure for many
other is a great one. She was an incredible field hockey player, and
played with all her heart on the field, and always gave 100%, and i wish that
the younger player had the opportunity to see her play. I am honored
that I had the opportunity to play on the same team as her. I love
Vicki and things will never be the same without her, her smile lit up the
room and her laugh was contagious. Looking at old photos reminds me of
how goofy and fun she was to be around. She appreciated every aspect of
life, and It hurts to see that it has been taken from her. Vicki, I
remember how you cried that time I couldn't make it to the game, or when we
cried together to Green Day because then we realized we would never play
together again, You were my other half on the field, and with every field
hockey game I play I know you will be there with me, because i can't play
another game without you. I love you, Thanks for the memories. -Brittany Dippolito |
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I've
known Vicki since she was in diapers. She was somewhere around one and I was about
2 years old. I lived right down the street from her for many years. We did
everything together. We quickly became more like sisters than just simply
friends. People used to think we were twins at times, and used to get our
names mixed up. If I started to begin telling about the memories, I would go
on forever. There was never a dull moment with Vicki. She was so creative and
full of dreams and ideas. As she and I grew older, she started to develop new
friends and interests and kind of took off. I could not have been a luckier
person to have spent so many years with her. I was in her room last night,
looking through all of her pictures. And the more I got through, the more I
realized that Vicki was certainly one of a kind. I think of her as larger than
life. She was always looking for a new adventure, and new challenge to take
on. I started to think wow this girl has guts. How could someone be so brave
and bold? 18 years old. She truly is an inspiration for me and lots of
people. I just want to know what her trick was. How could someone be so
incredible? This just goes to prove that there is something better after
life. And Vicki was ready. She did so much, impacted so many lives. A true
leader. We know that because she's already ahead of us. Isn’t that the truth?
She was always a step ahead of everyone; bringing new ideas to the table.
What exciting thing could she do next? Inspiring people to join her in her
playful activities and games. All I can say, is that my life will forever be
changed by her. I only hope I can amount to half of what she was. And I
couldn't possibly ask for a better Guardian Angel 0: ) In my heart forever Vick, I love you and will take a piece of
you throughout all that I do! All my love, Randi Woolston |
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Vicki, Hmm where to begin?!? You and my little Jaimie
came into band my senior year and we became instant BFF! There was not a
single thing we did without all of us together. I remember when we went to
Pizza Hut and stole the cups and the pizza cutter thing. Then, we found that
nasty couch in the dumpster and we took pics of each other on it. I dunno how
i would've gotten through my last year of high school if it weren't for youse
guys! I've known your family for a loooooong time ***Good old |
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I will always remember Vicki as one of my best friends... I
feel like the reason nobody ever saw me in a bad mood in high school was
because I saw Vicki everyday. We would walk to class almost everyday and
right away my day couldnt have been a bad one. Vicki was one of the funniest
people I ever met and I was always proud to have her as a friend. I had
plenty of friends in PHS but Vicki was the only one that stuck with me from
freshmen year all the way to the end. We never fought or made fun each other
(at least in a mean way). I would always draw her funny comics and make
comics on the computer. She had a whole book of them and she filled her
locker with a lot of them. Throughout the years I gained respect for Vicki
that I had for almost nobody else. I loved her family and her equally and I
dont know what I will do without her. At project graduation we both decided
to do a conjoined character together and I still have it even though it may
not look like either of us but I thought that someday I could show Vicki
again and we could laugh at how bad it was. Nobody ever made me smile like
Vicki did and I feel like Vicki helped shaped my sense of humor to what it is
today. On the night of the 26th of November Vicki IMed me on the computer the
chorus to a song that I thought was hilarious. She wrote, "Boom, boom,
boom, let me hear you say AYO!" and I wrote back
"AYOOO!!!"...That was the last thing me and Vicki ever said to one
another proving that she made me smile even on the night of her passing.
Vicki...I will never forget you...I owe you a lot... -Matt Lineham |
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I am so thankful Vicki came by the band office every
couple of days 8th period last year and that I had the opportunity to play
Field Hockey with her. She always brought an uplifting word or a funny joke
to brighten your day. She had the most optimistic attitude and I know her
influential personality will always be remembered. We should all try to be a
little more like Vicki and keep her energy and carefree spirit alive. God
Bless Vicki and the Hickman family. Our prayers are with you. - Love always,
Krisoula Horiates |
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Vicki taught me the art of car
defacing. She began attacking my little Saturn during the play of my
senior year. I came out from practice to find my car wrapped in caution
tape. Her and Jaimie and Tinie all banded together to torture me, but
inside i loved the car wars. I covered her car in confetti filled
balloons and got her with seran wrap. She also got me while she was
with me. I thought my car was safe, but her little accomplices got me
with toilet paper! I could never escape her, and she always stole my
antenna topper! Then I crashed my poor little Saturn
and Vicki blamed me for ending the car wars too soon. I told her to not
worry, these wars will continue despite me not having a car. After
awhile, I was at school a lot and she had her senior year. Every time I
saw her she had this huge grin on her face and the car wars seemed to
end. But she still reminded me on a fairly regular basis that she would
get the last laugh. Saturday the 25th I went into the
wawa to grab milk at When I heard the news Monday, it was
unreal to me. I didn't wan to believe it, but after talking with both
Jaimie and Tinie, I took it in only to glance back at my window and cry once
again. She has beaten me...I cannot win this time. She deserved
to win, she is the pro. I look at my window wishing to save it
forever. It will always be my lasting memory of Vicki, the funny,
quirky, loveable gal who kicked my butt in the car wars. To the Hickmans~ I love your family and I
pray for you daily that you may heal and know what a great daughter you
raised. Your entire family is filled with blessings, and I love you
guys. Vicki~ I know you are up there smiling down on all of us. You left us too soon, but will live in our hearts forever. Save room for us, can't wait to see you again <3. And thank goodness there are no cars in heaven. Don't deface any wings up there. I love you! <3 always, Michele Joy |
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I am so thankful to have met you last year in field
hockey. You always brightened the field with your laughter and the way
you glowed on the field every time you got the ball. When I needed a
ride you would always say yes. I thank you for that. I will
miss you so much. I love you a lot. ~ Chelsea Reeve |
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I’ll always miss Vicki now that she is gone. I got to know her
all of my freshman year and she always knew how to make me smile. She was
very goofy and ill always remember that beautiful smile she had. She had the
best personality ever. Deepest sympathy goes out to Mr and Mrs. Hickman and
Vicki's brother. I found out about her untimely death on Tuesday the 28th of
November, and it seemed so unreal I couldn't believe. That day was very hard
for a lot of people. She was a very accomplished person. I'm
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Like everybody else, I don't know where to begin with
Vicki. The summer of last year, I met Vicki at the first day of band camp.
Since then, I realized exactly why everybody had really loved her. What was
not to love about her? Everywhere we went, everything we did, from going to
Christine's dad's house to play with the animals, to freshman formal, to
sitting in her basement laughing at her childhood diary, there was fun. She
knew how to make everything and anything fun, and there was never a dull
moment with her. Somehow whenever I was in trouble, Vicki seemed to be
there, helping me out of it in some way, any way she could. Vicki knew
how to live life to it's fullest, and hopefully that's something she passed
on to everyone around her. To the Hickmans, I am very sorry for your loss. Our prayers go
out to you, and just hope you know what a great daughter you raised.
Love, Mike Goldstein |
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The fondest memory I have of Vicki is the three years of high school
in the band I spent with her. Vicki was the smallest Band member her freshmen
year. However, when I entered her sophomore year, Vicki was the second
smallest person. When everyone was lining up for photos from tallest to
shortest, I made my way down the line till I got to Vicki. Her and I glared
at each other for a second, trying to determine who was taller. "No, I'm
taller." We would bicker back and forth. Then a few band members would
confirm that Vicki was actually taller then me. She was so excited to be
taller then someone finally. She was jumping around and giggling saying how
she was not the smallest person in the band. Every year after during the same
time I would attempt to beat Vicki in the height race. I wore heels one day
and told her, "See! I'm taller this year! You're the shortest now!"
Vicki looked down and pointed at my shoes, "No! I am definitely taller
because you're wearing heels." She won again. My junior year was
simple, because lining up only required me to look for Vicki and stand in
front of her. I gave up with the height competition, but it was always fun.
My heart goes out to her family, her closest friends and everyone who was
given the opportunity to have fun with Peanut. -Hollie Miller |
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I got to know Vicki through skydiving. She had an amazing personality, incredible smile, and a growing love for the sky. She had a laugh that dominated the atmosphere and will be missed by all at the dropzone. Blue Skies Vicki! Sean |
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After the service yesterday, I was so touched by the
outpouring of love from so many people that have been touched by We all know that “Who can say for certain. Maybe you’re still here. I feel you all around me. Your memory so clear. Deep in the stillness, I can hear you speak. You’re still an inspiration.” (song written by Josh Grobman) Victoria, Bill, Kristi, and Bill Jr. – You are so deeply loved by so many people. I am blessed to have you in my life. – Ms. Murray |
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Vicki lived by the words live, laugh, love. She was the
nothing short of amazing and I to this day I'am still astonished by all that
she has achieved. Everyday brought on a new adventure, a new mystery for her
to unveil. Anything and everything she set her mind to she came out on top.
She loved her life more than anyone else I've ever met. She showed her family
and friends just how much she cared without having to say a word. The room
lit up when she walked in and she made sure everyone always had a smile on
her face. In a short 18 years this girl accomplished more than some people
can ever imagine. She was so much bigger than anything this world could offer
her. I honestly believe that we just weren't ready for what she had in store
for us next. She really was one of the most caring, genuine, loving people I
have ever met, not to mention strange as could be also. I was blessed to be
able to call her my best friend. I thank god everyday that she was such a
major part of my life and that I was able to learn many life lessons from
her. I know she's with me everyday from here on out, I know that when I'm
stuck at crossing paths in life and I have the sense of adventure to take the
more challenging of the two that's her way of showing me to never take life
for granted and go for something that you believe is bigger than what you
are. That's how she lived everyday. To the Hickmans, I cannot say enough how sorry I am for your
loss. I love you guys and just want to thank you for opening your door to all
of us and taking us into your family. Thank you for being my rock through all
of this when you were hurting just the same. ~Tara Duffy |
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I tried to send in a message last Thursday but I'm guessing
that it didn't go through so I'm going to try again. I really can't say
anything that hasn't been said before but I didn't want this moment to pass
by without my sending my condolences to all of When Kristen first called to tell us the news, she had heard
it 2nd or 3rd hand so I was hoping against hope that it was all
just a horrible mistake. But shortly after she called,
Jack called too and then I knew that it was true. As much as
I wanted to call him back I just couldn't pick up the phone. I couldn't repeat
those words. I tried in vain not to empower them. I
held on to the hope that as long as I didn't let them in, didn't accept them,
it couldn't be true. However, we all know differently. It's been a week now. We've gone to her viewing, her
funeral, and watched as beautiful doves reminded us that Vicky now has
her own set of angel wings and has soared off into heaven where she will
wait for us and help to welcome us all. I didn't know Now as the days pass by, we know that My heart goes out to you, Bill, Kristi and Billy. My family and I will hold you in our hearts and our prayers each and every day. Next semester when Kristen is a student chef at Careme's or over the summer when she's interning back at Harrah's, she hopes that you'll come and visit her and let her prepare a meal with that special dessert you were asking for. We love you and are so sorry for your loss. ~ The Curcios |
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During Vicki’s service we played a song that captures the essence
of the faith that carries me through this situation, I am hoping it may
provide a similar strength to some of you that are looking for answers. -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
HELD – Natalie Grant http://mfile.akamai.com/9139/wmv/stream.wmg.com/curb/NG_Held_4.wmv Two months is too little. Take a child from his mother while she prays |
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